In our Disneyfied view of the world
where has the happy ever after gone?
Finding
Happiness can seem to be dream too far when our life, our security purpose and
meaning seem to be falling apart. We have survived the challenges of growing
up, achieved some maybe a lot of success in our careers and found someone to
love and to have children.
Now we are
in our middle years when for many, life begins to fall apart. Failing health,
relationships and careers present themselves as challenges that most people are
wholly unprepared for. In our Disneyfied
view of the world where has the happy
ever after gone? We are at risk of being overwhelmed by the chaos shown
on the news and that together with our own foundations of life being shaken our
future can look bleak with depression setting in with a feeling of
hopelessness.
There is a
real alternative when we accept that change will happen and that we can’t
control that much of it. What we can do is change our perspective and take
responsibility for our own wellbeing, our own happiness, adapt and to find new
opportunities but how?
The How is a big problem as most people have
never had to give a great deal of thought to their lives. They have lived within
a process of education, career and family and suddenly they often find
themselves alone with no obvious direction. Now in middle years many people
need to seek new meaning in their work and relationships. There is a real fear
of change and that of feeling very alone.
One solution
is to work with a Life Coach who can help you establish a pathway to your
future. Guiding and supporting you to achieve new ways of thinking that in turn
enable you to create a New Life not re-invent the old that in many ways is no
longer fit for purpose.
As a life
coach I help people better understand their emotional as well as practical
challenges. This together with a plan developed between us I support and enable
those willing to take on new challenges to find new purpose and meaning in
their life. For those who choose not to accept their reality and move forward they
are destined to a life of disappointment and sadness. Missing the opportunity
of happiness is just too great a loss and unnecessary when futures can be so
fulfilling and exciting.
Ian Marshall
www.mejma.com.
ian@mejma.com
01962809554
www.mejma.com.
ian@mejma.com
01962809554
January 2018
